disappointed

I don't know whether it is disappointment or annoyance. no holds barred.

my xiao di, apparently is visiting sg with his friends. He texted me asking where is "Happy" and how to go there yesterday. well, the club "Happy" has been replaced by "Play". and today, he asked where he can get some sort of mr men tee. it's sold by newurbanmale shop.

Eventually I asked whether he has any plan of meeting me since he's in town, the reply was "sorry da ge, we hv been rushing from one place to another, I don't even hv time to rest><, and I look like crap now" === I have no plan in meeting u. That just ticks me off, cos I've known him for years. So that's how things have turned out to be. I don't know, is it justifiable to expect him to at least ask to have a short meet up, over a cup of tea maybe. if he came with his family I'd understand, but no, he came with his queer friends. Nvm, I just need to cool my head and don't bother. ignorance is a bliss, some might say.

He then sms-ed me asking where I am. I wanted to reply, "don't bother" but chose not to reply at all. Just got a call from whether i wanna go to "Play". I guess he had some idea that I'm disappointed since I didn't reply any of his sms. The anwer is no. He wouldn't have asked me out if I didn't mention anything bout meeting up. hmm... am acting rather childish now...

Another incident, I hate it when a friend that u seldom talk to suddenly calls u with some alterior motives, and it happened today. There's this one guy whom I don't really get along with. They way he behaves is as if he's trying to prove that he's better than me, maybe he thinks i'm aloof. when I was in my home country, I got into the best engineering univ, and he couldn't get it and had to settled for the second best. Then, both of us entered the same univ in Singapore. I joined the debating team, and since then everytime we met, he would try to directly or indirectly challenge me to a debate, which I couldn't be bothered to respond. Afterwards, I got a position as a main committee for club, and he, as a member, would tend to disagree with me. Obviously I didn't get his vote during the election.
And now.... after soo long, he gave me a call. I was really surprised , my initial thought was "Is he going to say happy bday". I'm to foolish to even have such a thought. He told me that he's working in Prudential. He didn't hv to say anything else to hv me figured that he wanted to sell insurance!!!! the things that one would do....

nothing special bout my bday, I prefer to be ignorant, not many people remember. Kinda expected it, so it doesn't really affect me. My bf sent me a pair of sunglasses from UK :) It looks cool, too bad I can't wear it since I'm short sighted, unless I wear contacts.